I have been musing over the visit with the Great Blue Herons this past weekend. Today, I notice that I feel a tug. A tug toward being freed from the tethers of this earth. How I wish to be free from what holds me here!
Perhaps part of today’s thoughts arise from the experience of having had some money stolen from the inner-city store front I help run. We exist as place to help youth gain employability skills and to bring healthy food to an area that is designated a food desert. To say we run on a shoe-string budget would be optimistic. We may not be able to continue past this coming August.
This is not the first time I have experienced this type of theft. In all reality, it is a part of the price of “doing business” in an area of poverty. I am long past being angry about such things. I just feel disheartened. Particularly in this instance for the only possible people to have taken this money would be those who are a part of our program.
It is the betrayal of trust that is the worse of all.
I cannot help but reflect on the question, “why do I do this”? What possible difference am I making? I think of some of my colleagues who work in foreign communities to promote peace and healing, but return to their own secure homes away from these places where they work to bring about change. I am sure they face their own challenges, but right now I am feeling how difficult it is to try and bring about change in the place one lives. A place from which there is no secure refuge.
For sure, I do have the ability to move away from this area. But despite the number of times we have been stolen from and have been vandalized, there are people within this community who are working to achieve a better life. And this better life is not just about increasing economic resources and moving away, but building positive relationships with the people around them. This is what keeps me here, despite my so called white privilege that endows me with the inherent ability to move out of these circumstances.
But this is one of those days that I think I am living an illusion and it is futile to think that things can be any other than what they are. I feel as if there is no way I can be other than “other”. If I were to capitalize on my white privilege, I would be found guilty of hubris. If I try to be the positive change I would like to see … then I am that white person who can’t possibly understand.
It is this constant tug of war between ideologies that I wish to escape. The idea of spreading wings, taking flight and gliding toward the horizon toward realms unknown tugs at my very soul.